(60-minute Workshop Panel) This is a very rare opportunity to hear directly from birth moms — why they chose adoption for their babies, what they expected and what was on their hearts at the time. Learn whether & how they stayed involved in the child's upbringing, how they got support & care after placement, and how they feel now looking back on their decision.
Two women who took the stage with me were absolutely fabulous: calm, poised, open, articulate and so sincere about their experiences. They were a huge blessing to all who attended. Comments from the CAFO Panel Evaluations
What was the most helpful thing you learned?
Everyone's story is different, each adoption is different
Open adoption is healing for the birth mom and benefits the child (ID) for all their life
Consistent visits are important!
Boundaries change over time.
As in any relationship, communication is key.
What was the most surprising thing you learned?
There CAN be a healthy, significant relationship between the birth mom and adoptive parents
Birth moms also don't like the term "giving up". "Intentionally place" is much better
Post-placement support for the birth mom is vital.